2020-2021 Texas A&M Parents Of The Year Announced
The Aggie Parent and Family Ambassadors (APFA), a sponsored student organization at Texas A&M University, announced that Tanya and T.J. Gillespie have been selected as the 2020-2021 Parents of the Yeartayl.
The Gillespies were nominated by Andrew Marko ’20, a member of the Corps of Cadets in Company P-2. On Monday, May 11, the Gillespies received a video announcement featuring Marko, fellow members of P-2 and Commandant Joe Ramirez notifying them of their selection for the honor and thanking them for their service to the university and the cadets.
Tanya Gillespie said she and her husband were surprised and humbled to learn they had been named Parents of the Year.
“To say we are honored is an understatement,” they said. “There are many great parents who have raised these amazing Aggies before we even meet them. We are so lucky to have them in our life.”
In his nomination, Marko said he met the Gillespies shortly after completing Freshman Orientation Week (FOW) in the Corps. When he and the other freshmen in his outfit were told to contact Tanya Gillespie to set up a dinner, they didn’t realize they were getting so much more.
“What we didn’t know was that we were basically gaining an entirely new set of parents that would love and care for us just as much as our own did,” Marko said. “Freshmen year had its challenges and its rewards, but Tanya and T.J. were there for all of it.”
The Gillespies have a special connection with P-2. Their only son, Taylor Gillespie ’11, was also a member of P-2. Taylor was serving as the company commander when he was tragically killed in January 2011 in a car wreck while returning to campus following winter break. A few years after their son’s death, the couple was inspired to move from Leonard, Texas, to College Station and open Taylor’s Place, a nonprofit providing free accommodations for the families of Aggie students who otherwise could not afford to visit, as well as a home-like environment for students as they face the challenges of transitioning into university life.
Marko described in his nomination the many ways in which the Gillespies embody the Core Values of Texas A&M, but one in particular stood out above the others.
“The strongest core value they embody is by far selfless service,” Marko said. “Opening up your home and life to basically complete strangers in the pursuit of making all able to spend time with their families or to give them a new family is one of the most unselfish acts I have ever witnessed. I truly have never met anyone more willing to help at any time than the Gillespies.”
The couple said receiving this distinction reinforces their passion for their nonprofit work and they look forward to the year ahead.
“This award brings us comfort that our mission at Taylor’s Place and the reason we do it is needed,” the Gillespies said. “We are here solely for the students and their families and will strive to continue the legacy paved before us by all Parents of the Year.”
Every year, Texas A&M students nominate their parents and family members to represent the university as Parents of the Year. Members of APFA, sponsored by the Office of New Student & Family Programs, select the winners based upon their character and embodiment of the Texas A&M Core Values of respect, excellence, leadership, loyalty, integrity and selfless service.
While the newly selected Parents of the Year are usually introduced during Family Weekend, the announcement was delayed this year due to the COVID-19 pandemic. Tanya and T.J. Gillespie will be presented and officially begin their role as Texas A&M Parents of the Year in the fall.
APFA would like to extend their gratitude to Preston ’84 and Susan ’83 Abbott, the 2019-2020 Parents of the Year, for their service to the university over the past year.